Thursday, 11 April 2013

Get rid of the Bodyguard boyfriend!

Dude, stop wasting my girls time! Yes you. You know who you are.
Ladies he is...that guy that lays claim to your affection but is not ready to take you to the altar. And as if that is not bad enough, he stops and frowns at other men who want to pay you attention. He is the perfect boyfriend. He remembers the Anniversary of the day you met, he buys you gifts in fact he pays for your ticket when you feel the urge to travel. You have been dating over 5 years but he has no interest in meeting your parents 'Formally" (We all know he has met them informally).

Whenever, you broach the subject of a permanent commitment, he gives you a range of excuses like he needs to do his Masters/PHD// he needs to build a house in the city and in his village//he needs to make a whole lot of money//he needs to become famous//he needs to build a swimming pool/he needs to buy a laptop (yea ridiculous, sebi?)

So he strings you along for years and you let yourself get stringed along. Well it is because you love him. Love him so much.

Love Fire.

Girl, wake up! It is either he wants to marry you or he does not. He is gonna lead you past a marriageable age and then you will be too old for him and he will look for the pretty young thang who will fit perfectly on his arm (so what will you do then? ehen?)

I am no relationship Guru but I can tell you that a guy who does that is just around you because you are safe. When he is pushed out of his comfort zone by another woman, he will take the plunge he is refusing to take with you.  Case in point is Khloe Khardasian's husband, Lamar. He was with  a lady, Liza Morales for years and had three children with her. But then he met Khloe and in a matter of weeks, married her. Liza Morales had this to say when she heard the man she had spent 10 years was marrying someone else
'I don't think I'll forget the tight knot I felt in the pit of my stomach the morning I received the text message with three simple words on the screen. It read 'I'm getting married' and it was from the man I'd spent more than 10 years of my life with," she wrote on Daily Beast. "Years that included us getting engaged in 2000 and becoming parents to one daughter and two sons. Yet not long after our separation Lamar Odom was getting married to Khloe Kardashian, a woman he'd met four weeks before.

So Sweetheart, think about this when you let the 'ugly' 'no money' 'razz' toaster go because they don't fit the image of your current bodyguard boyfriend.
Recognize what he is. Be painfully honest with yourself. It will benefit you on the long run.
You are a woman and by default are able to withstand the greatest pain and heartache. Leave the bodyguard boyfriend. You will never get anything out of him.
Love yourself and be wise!
Be safe darlings!
It is just through my eyes, you may disagree!
Don't forget the silent competition going on here. The winner will be revealed on the 1st of May, 2013.


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